Blog 51

 

 

Hi dear people,

 

It's been quite a long time since I wrote a new blog...

 

One of my latest blog was about the partial dispute proceedings in court regarding the expertises that were stopped.

There I felt seen and heard, in addition, the judge had read my file very well and asked very good questions to both parties.

Some points were in my favor, as the point concerns the counterparty who had been requesting information for years while they already had this information or were asking for information that did not even exist!

In addition, the other party did not think it was normal for their medical advisor to have to request all the information himself.

 

The judge told the other party's lawyer, what is abnormal, is the fact that Mrs. Crins has signed a blank authorization and when there is no information you can assume that you now have all the information.

This was so good to hear!

In addition, the judge has drawn up something stating that the expert opinions must be completed within a certain time.

What a relief!

Now I knew that the other party did not have all the time in the world to keep stretching time with continue to postpone the expertise.

But no advance, that was such a disappointment...

 

In November 2018, it was decided to start the independent expertise, an orthopedic, neurological and psychological expertise.

In 2022 the orthopedic expertise finally took place, in 2024 the neurological and at the end of 2025 the psychiatric expertise and so the last one!

 

As I wrote earlier, the doctor of the orthopedic expertise has not been able to observe anything in his field, very logical with my kind of complaints.

Among things there was asked if I would have had these complaints without the car accident in 2014, this doctor answers, no, probably not.

 

The neurological expertise was very intense...

I was told that it could take about 4 hours and that new scans could also be made.

But no new scans were made and the conversation was not as friendly and pleasant as I expected.

The way I was treated made me feel like I was a fraudster, crying in the car when this appointment was over.

But still the neurologist saw and heard me more than I thought and in addition this doctor gave my first diagnosis! (Apart from my whiplash that was determined by the neurologist I saw in 2014 or 2015 and my practitioners physiotherapy.)

 

Now I have the diagnosis Fns and that means Functional neurological disorder.

A condition in which communication between brain and body is disturbed, it is a complex interaction of physical, psychological and social factors in which the brain does not process signals properly, often provoked by

Stress, trauma, surgery, infections or heavy emotional events such as loss or an accident.

 

At the end of 2025 I had the psychiatric and last expertise.

This one was also a long drive again but since I had to be as clear as possible during this appointment and had to be able to keep my attention on it I chose to go alone, the conversation could take a while and to have such a conversation while someone is waiting for you is not the way..

The car drive was nice!

It was quiet on the road and it felt like almost only driving straight ahead.

Once i arrived I introduced myself to a friendly doctor, the table where we had our conversation was very small so we sat directly opposite each other at a small distance, I liked this.

Because you have no way to hide, it was a pleasant and human conversation in which the doctor noticed and recognized how honest I am.

The way back was very intense for me.

It was quickly dark after I left and quite busy on the road.

As soon as I was on the highway the traffic was stuck and I got panic inside..

I just kept looking in my mirrors to see if the cars behind me stopped and saw that the traffic was slow or at a stand still, it was raining and this ride seemed endless...

The interview was on December 8th and sometime around the holidays I received the report!

I looked up important pieces and read them and I started crying...

I have really been seen and heard!!!

I forwarded some small details that were wrongly to the doctor and agreed to make the report public.

And so I can tell you that this doctor also gave me a diagnosis, Fns!

 

 

The report has been forwarded to both medical advisors and now I have had the last step I had to take and it is wait and see.

In addition, we of course also had to talk about the so-called life events which the psychiatrist of the hospital wrote down and was taken over indiscriminately by everyone.(i have written about these in blog 50)

But now I could tell my whole story about these points and therefore also how I dealt with them and how I processed it.

These are now completely swept off the table!!

 

That's it for now, I'll keep you posted.

 

Thank you for reading and empathing.

 

Love,

 

Kim.